Community Rituals for a Deceased Monk
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Concluding the Prologue of his Rule for Monasteries, Saint Benedict writes: Do not be daunted immediately by fear and run away from the road that leads to salvation. It is bound to be narrow at the outset. But as we progress in this way of life and in faith, we shall run on the path of God's commandments, our hearts overflowing with the inexpressible delight of love. Never swerving from God's instructions, then, but faithfully observing God's teaching in the monastery until death, we shall through patience share in the sufferings of Christ that we may deserve also to share in God's kingdom. Amen. Elsewhere in the Rule, St. Benedict counsels the monk to keep death daily before his eyes. These passages of the Rule do not reflect a morbid fascination with death, but rather a vision filled with hope that is ours through the Resurrection of Christ from the dead.
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Above is a photograph of the cemetery at St. Gregory's Abbey. |
It is with such hope and faith in Christ's victory over death that our monastic community bids farewell to our brothers when they come to the end of their life's journey in the monastery. When the death of a member of the community occurs, a bell is tolled and the Abbot officially announces his death at the next gathering of the community for prayer.
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prepared for burial, the community gathers at the entrance of the
monastery to welcome the deceased monk home for the last time.
The Abbot receives the body in its simple casket, the Word of God is proclaimed and the community prays for the deceased. The body of the monk then lies in state in the front parlor of the monastery, beneath the victorious sign of the cross and between images of St. Benedict and St. Scholastica, until the funeral mass. Visitors are welcome, and are encouraged to pray and remember the deceased.
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When the community gathers for prayer, it offers the "Office of the Dead" for the deceased monk. The hymns, psalms, antiphons and readings for these periods of prayer speak of God's promise of salvation for those who believe. The culmination of our prayer is the celebration of the Mass of the Resurrection, celebrated in the Abbey Church. The community gathers in the parlor to close the casket and to take one final walk with their deceased brother down the hallway of the monastery to the Church, a short journey that has been a regular part of the monk's day for the many years that he lived in the community.
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At the end of the Funeral Mass, members of the monastic community carry their deceased confrere from the church to the abbey cemetery that is adjacent to the church. The Easter Candle leads the procession, proclaiming Christ's victory over death. The community and guests follow the casket to the grave that has been prepared. |
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After the grave is blessed, the body is lowered into the ground and the burial begins. This act of charity is a final gesture offered by the community for their deceased brother.
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Naturally, the community continues to remember the deceased through numerous stories and in its daily prayer. The monk is remembered by name at prayer for thirty days. Our community also has the custom of remembering the deceased in the dining room by placing a crucifix and candles at his place at table for thirty days, and by reading a short biography of the deceased each year on the anniversary of his death.